Sunday, September 30, 2012

~Crush/Crushed~

A topic on crush/crushed hmm a hard topic for me as i dont really know what it really mean but i try to post something out of it haha so if what i say below is irrelevant please forgive me >< 

In physically term Crush/Crushed means compressive forces is acting on something like this (the arrows stands for the forces)  > object <   thats what happen in most car accidents
some people treat this word as a failure word to describe them that they have failed to accomplish something

In romance terms, is the first stage of signs, showing likeness to someone, is a sudden increase of feeling for the person when you see him/her it can be also she/he it can be regard as a eye candy if you regard him/her abit more special than normal friends but do not want to progress further as friends. 
a simple crush can be started from looks, personality and etc
it might and might not last for long depends on your feelings
but it can make your feelings more deeper for that person and it turned to love 

Signs of crush:
Eye contact: ( if someone hole eye contacts with you for a long period when he/she is talking to you) 
[studies say that if you see someone you like your pupil will automatic get bigger without you knowing] 

Nervous when talking to you: ( the person heart will beat fast when he/she look at you and could not think of what to say to you)
[ abit true, but some people might do something else to overcome this nervousness]

Willing to do anything you ask: (he/she will definitely do anything for you if you requested)
[the most obvious sign, but some guys might treat girls very nice and treat them as very good friends]

He/She will pop out everywhere,whenever you go: (He/She will find opportunities to get closer to you so he/she will be there if he/she knows you are there)
[ a very common sign but is hard to tell if he/she have a crush on you]

Smiles: (He/she will smile at you like this =D a very big grin when he/she saw you.)
[common sign but is hard to tell if he/she really have a crush on you too, he/she can be just happy]

The way he/she talks: (he/she can talk to his/her friends very chor lor aka like very open and very care free but when he/she talks to you they be more careful of their words used and their tone of speaking)
 [not all will show this sign but this sign is obvious] 

personal view from me when i have a crush on someone.. hahaha almost all of the factors i listed above will be shown except the 4th one haha as for the last factor i do have it last time but now no. because  i like to be the person who i really am. be yourself and people will naturally like the way you are =].

This is true also ><: 


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